How to plan a golf trip with the boys?

The Therapy of Tee Time: Crafting the Perfect Golf Trip with the Boys

By Mikey Parisano

Embarking on a golf trip with the boys is not just a getaway; it's a meticulous orchestration of schedules and coordination. Join me as we explore the art of scheduling the perfect golf trip and the profound mental health benefits that come with this carefully curated escape.

In my diverse group of friends, there's a mix of married pals, the single adventurers, and those scattered across different corners of the town. In addition, my group is combined of friends from high school, college, and my work life. The challenge lies not just in finding a suitable date but in synchronizing the calendars of a group with varied commitments. The key to success? Open communication and planning well in advance. A well participated group chat doesn't hurt, either. 

For the married crew, understanding the family calendar is paramount. We've found that involving their partners in the planning process ensures a smoother experience. It's about finding a weekend where everyone is on the same page – a time when family commitments align, and we can carve out a guilt-free golfing retreat.

Coordinating with the single guys involves navigating work schedules and social commitments. Their priorities in life are a little different and don't require dance recitals or tee-ball practice like some of the married guys. Having a shared calendar helps us identify weekends that work for everyone, allowing us to plan ahead and secure those coveted tee times. It's a collaborative effort that strengthens our bonds even before we hit the fairways.

Once the dates are set, the mental health benefits of anticipation kick in. The mere act of planning a golf trip with your friends becomes a source of excitement and positive anticipation. Those random Tuesday's at work don't suck so much when you have an upcoming golf trip to look forward to. Studies suggest that looking forward to an enjoyable event can enhance overall well-being and reduce stress, making the planning process an essential part of the therapeutic journey.

As we converge on the chosen golf destination, the mental health benefits continue to unfold. Being outdoors, surrounded by the natural beauty of the golf course, enjoying the sun (Vitamin D), and getting more steps in throughout 18 holes than you would by staying at home, has a calming effect on the mind. The combination of fresh air, green landscapes, and the company of friends creates an environment that promotes relaxation and stress relief. If you're feeling anxious or battling depression, these are the days that really help you get out of your funk.

Moreover, the golf trip serves as a break from routine, injecting a dose of novelty into our lives. Breaking away from the familiar and immersing ourselves in a weekend of golf and camaraderie becomes a recipe for enhanced mental well-being.

To our understanding wives, patient girlfriends, and supportive partners– thank you for recognizing the importance of these trips. The mental health benefits extend far beyond the golf course, positively impacting our overall happiness and resilience. The journey from scheduling to execution is a testament to the power of shared experiences and the lasting impact they have on our well-being.

So, here's to the art of scheduling, the joy of anticipation, and the mental health benefits of a well-crafted golf trip. May the fairways be in our favor, and may our partners continue to understand the therapeutic value of these cherished getaways. Cheers to the therapy of tee time– where friendships are fortified, stress is left behind, and the greens become our sanctuary!

PS: if you enjoyed this blog and you want to support our website, check out the Tee Time collection where all of our golf shirts are located. 5% of our sales are used to donate to mental health charities in Philadelphia and throughout the United States!